Wedding Trends for 2020

I have noticed some new trends lately that I absolutely LOVE, because most of them focus on making your day go more smoothly.  I am always in favor of anything that can be done on your wedding day to reduce stress and save time!  Here are some of my favorites:

Don't bustle your dress.
Many brides are choosing to have detachable trains or change into a second dress for the reception instead of hassling with a bustle.  I have seen bustles cost several hundred dollars and then break in the middle of the first dance.  I have seen bustles so complicated that they never got bustled.  And frankly, most dresses when bustled are still pretty difficult to move around in.  Why not save the money that you would pay a seamstress and buy something gorgeous and comfy for the reception?  And don't forget a comfy pair of dancing shoes!

Welcome your guests with cocktails.
Instead of waiting until after the ceremony, have beverages waiting for them as they arrive!  Those who show up early will have a chance to mingle and relax, and no one will have to sit at the ceremony site uncomfortably for 45 minutes - and everyone will be in a much better mood during your ceremony if they are a bit more relaxed.

Have a smaller wedding party.
It may sound like fun to have 10 of your closest friends with you all day on your wedding day, but the reality is usually much different.  Having a large group of people having their hair and makeup done at the same time can be very hectic.  Posing for portraits takes longer.  Trying to make sure everyone has their attire purchased and altered on time can be nerve wracking.  Overall, the more attendants you have, the more stressful and expensive it will be. 

Invite fewer guests.
I probably hear this in one form or fashion from about 75% of my couples.  Most people feel obligated to invite more people than they would actually like to have at their wedding.  Pressure from friends and family can be difficult!  However, the couples who are the happiest at the end of their wedding day are the ones who didn't invite 100 more guests than they wanted to.  Also, who wants to spend $150 per person to invite cousins that you haven't seen in a decade?  Make sure the right people are surrounding you on your big day, and you will enjoy it so much more.

Skip the sendoff.
I could go on about this one for days!  The vast majority of guests don't like sparkler sendoffs.  (I will admit than 200 moderately inebriated guests holding sticks of fire isn't that appealing to me, either!)  Colored smoke can stain clothing.  Lantern releases are prohibited in most places.  Bubble send offs can go awry with a shift of the wind.  If you still want to have those great photos, talk with your photographer about staging them with your wedding party earlier in the day.  And keep in mind that if your photographer doesn't have to hang around until the very end of the reception to get the sendoff shots, they could potentially go home after the cake is cut, which would save on average around $1000.  A new trend that I am seeing is where the newlyweds have the last dance of the night alone.  They either have their last dance while all their guests watch, or sometimes this is done after the guests have left.  My couples who have done this say that it is a nice way to take a moment to reflect on their big day, and they absolutely loved it.


The most important thing to take away is that you should definitely make your wedding exactly the way you want it.  Of course if your dream is to have 15 bridesmaids, go for it!  Just make sure that you create your perfect wedding day that the two of you will cherish for the rest of your lives. 

And let me know if you need any help.  ;)

Joy